……… people who think there is a problem with Gay marriage. Hopefully we get beyond even calling it “Gay” marriage pretty soon.
It’s not natural!
Same sex relationships of all kinds are pretty common in the animal kingdom, and therefore natural. Some animals have same sex relationships despite the availability of partners of the opposite sex. You cant stop love and caring.
But We’re Not Animals
Nope, we are capable of love and intense feelings of loyalty and nurturing, This makes us uniquely capable of forming long term relationships with other humans with attachments to our young and elders. These attachments transcend sexuality.
Not MY mommy and Daddy!
Children know when they are being properly taken care of. They form judgements about home life, make comparisons to other children homes, good and bad. At some point in every childs life they realize mommy and daddy do something funny in the bed room. ewwww. What goes on in there has nothing to do with the kiddies.
But what will the neighbors say?
First fill the tub with lime jello, get some hot sauce, a spatula set, AAA batteries, the Tammy Wynette 25th anniversary box set..and a (consenting) white chicken and…….wait! this is my business in the privacy of my home. It doesnt mean Im a good or bad parent or neighbor or employee. Anybody who has an interest in what I do on a Saturday night (who isnt invited) is sicker than I am.
God hates Homos!
If God cared we would have rules against being Gay. God Cares about what your intentions are. If your intention is to stick together for life, buy a home in the burbs, get a Labrador, raise some kids, take care of each other no matter what, I think that makes God pretty happy. I cant see this destroys civilization, seems pretty civilized to me.
Marriage is hard.
Some people want to do it despite the challenges. Same sex marriages have built controls, Babys dont just “happen” Which is the way that most of us get here and many conventional marriages happen.
I thought our neighbors where a same sex relationship for a couple of months. I dont think so now, the beauty is, it doesn’t matter, I couldn’t tell the difference.